My boyfriend has no table manners

February 09, 2026

Dear Pastor,

I am a 15-year-old girl and I was invited to have dinner at my boyfriend's home.

I was sitting at the table facing him, and during the dinner, my boyfriend stretched his legs and was playing with my private part. I stared at him, but I was enjoying what he was doing. His father was not at home, but his mother was, but she was too busy serving to figure out why I was giggling.

My boyfriend and I never had sex, but I told him that he should never do that to me again, even though I liked it.

His mother says I should come back to see her soon. I told her I will.

L

Dear L.,

Your boyfriend does not have any behaviour. If you were to go back to his house, please do not sit at the table facing him.

Pastor

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